Original: Li Sheng
I'm leaving hotel
I used to think
I will never be a good hotel employee
Because I'm too independent, too picky and a good boy who doesn't like to be obedient
and
I hate everyone who wants to change me
But three years have passed. I have changed a lot. I must confess
The so-called "progress"
This is a process of recognition and a process of "domestication"
The so-called "taming"
It is process of understanding rules, following rules, and using rules
I don't
To be "tamed" by some people, but tamed by laws of hotels and workplaces
I used to despise this process
But today it seems
Like a mediocre person
If you want to do something in this society
Being domesticated is inevitable
I'm a mediocre person
Following Thoughts
Only for me, boring and mediocre
Genius is right word for you talented Mr. Lee
And I may not be able to make it in my life
One,
What is "empathy"?
I said it's harder
Empathy is based on point of view and position of stakeholder
Objectively understand inner feelings of parties
And put this understanding
Method of communication with parties
It's simple
Compassion is "don't do to others what you don't want to do to yourself"
Compare your heart with your heart
It means putting yourself in place of others in order to feel others and be considerate of them
Simply put, empathy is EQ
Let me be more specific
Empathy is a job assigned by a leader
You have to understand his purpose and see his intentions
I often come across such situations
When assigning work to team members
Repeatedly asking "Am I clear?", "There are some problems"
After reconfirmation
The submitted item still doesn't answer question
So when I accept a task
Always confirm to leader
What do you want? what is your goal?
After understanding this
You can stand from his point of view and help him solve problems effectively
Empathy
When interacting with others, understand their needs and psychology
Unobtrusively convince each other
Both parties are working hard to achieve same goal
If you want to use force to crush others, it's usually not that easy to do
Two,
Be obedient and live well
2 years ago
I'm talking to a friend
He said, "What is a good employee?
A good employee is very simple, just four words
"Be obedient and live well." I will always remember this. This is a wise saying
What is "obedient"?
There is an old saying: "You can't work hard
It's useless to exhaust yourself" who is "Dong"
Your line manager is "Dong"
In most cases, it is correct to listen to him
Based on my experience
Generally speaking, leader is taller than you
At least up to a point
He has more complete information and more accurate judgments than you
Because of leadership
Easier access to higher levels and lbetter understanding of goals of higher levels
He knows what you don't
You think "it's right" from your point of view
But leaders don't necessarily think so at a higher level
What is "living away from home"?
This is job your supervisor gave you
You must finish on time and report back
If
This job will take a long time
Then you need to periodically give feedback to manager
We often make mistakes
The manager is satisfied with job, he won't tell you if he doesn't ask
It's over if you don't mention it in black
Has it passed?
It's so easy! Leaders remember this
When you wait for him to ask you - hello Xiaochen
What about what you were asked to do last time?
——He
I have already written a label for you in my heart
"Unreliable"
Unreliable
It is necessary to use ten "reliable" ones for reverse
Two "unreliable"
It's hard to change impression, three "unreliable" you have no chance
Three,
If you want to be famous before others, you must suffer in secret
If you want to be famous
It is not difficult to understand truth about need to suffer secretly
This
When you really suffer, you will be vague
Some people will say
Why I don't enjoy life when I'm young
This kind of thinking is very common
It's a matter of values
Nothing to say
Everything a person wants to live is right
But there are friends
He is entangled in pursuit of ideals and enjoyment of life
You can chat with these friends
What we need
There should be a great balance in life
It's not a small balance for a while, in sense that
Before
New Oriental has a saying too
Afraid of hardships and hardships all his life, not afraid of hardships and hardships for half his life
These two sentences have same meaning and deserve attention
Four,
How much trouble can be tolerated and how much trouble can be achieved
One day of overtime
I came home at 2 am. Received an email from my boss
It is inappropriate to criticize my work
I was devastated when I received letter
I was hurt a lot anyway, so I wrote a book right away
Reply to email! explain how I work
What I do makes sense
How effective what I did... I wrote over 2000 words
Done
I seem to be calmer
I think of one thing
If I were a boss, I would be dissatisfied with work of an employee
So I emailed him to criticize him
What I want to see is his eloquent explanation and justification
Obviously not
Then I suddenly understood
So I deleted those 2000 words
Simple answer
In sense that
I'll think about itproblems in my work and will fix them as soon as possible
I got promoted after two months
At my promotion ceremony
I told my boss about it
He told me: I know you're offended
I just want to see how you deal with resentment and pressure
What will be reaction? It speaks of maturity of a person
Five,
Always avoid leader, you are in danger
Many are hiding from leader
Try to talk less to leader and walk around leader
Because closer you are to leader, more things you will do
If you have little contact with leader, you will have less to do and more free time
It's "one leaf blinds eye, but Mount Tai is invisible"
If
You want to achieve something at work
I invite you to take lead and communicate more with leaders
What leaders say in regular meetings is mostly important.
True words, useful words
It is not necessary to say worthy words
It's not that he doesn't want to say it, it's that he doesn't have opportunity to say it
Caring staff
I'll find time and get in touch
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You can understand
A manager's view of you and work
This is useful for how you proofread your work
Friend worried
This will displease management, but it won't
Leaders are mostly lonely
If he finds an employee humbly asking him for advice
He is very happy to actively share his thoughts about work
The boss is human too
Everyone communicate like human beings, everything will be much easier
Six,
Don't skimp on helping others
When you
When you are busy with work
When colleagues come to you to “ask for help,” we often speak directly.
Even
Rough rejection
As you know, this will sow seeds of trouble in your future work
Feng shui flips
At hotel
There is a high chance that everyone's work will overlap
Perhaps who you will use
These relationships need to be maintained at normal times
You helped someone today
Maybe tomorrow
The interlocutor will become a saving straw for you, which is very likely
Seven
Goal and purpose, quantification and quantification
No target,
It's not called work; if it is not quantified, it is not called a target
When applying for a job
First ask what goal is
When assigning a task, first explain what goal is
It's not clear, it's all nonsense
I don't want to
Blindfolded donkey
So, in addition to a clear understanding of your goals
You also need to know goals of your department and hotel
>The most important thing you need to know
How does your work meet overall goal?
What role to play
If you find it
The purpose of your work has nothing to do with overall purpose
It doesn't even matter, you will be easily removed later
Dismiss employees
Or giving an employee an "Unqualified" rating is a headache
But it's actually not that hard
Key
Formulate quantitative work goals with each employee in advance
And remind employees at any time
Does it meet requirements
Quantitative goals not achieved
Sacking or "disqualifying" is a matter of course
In front of data, no matter how hypocritical people have nothing to say
Instead
If we talk about feelings and hopes, this case will be impossible
Eight
I must find a solution to problem
The work is organized by supervisor
Can't say "I can't", "I can't"
The hotel invited us to work
This is solution to problem if she can't solve problem
We are useless
Difficulty progressing and unable to continue
It's okay
We need to actively seek answers and solutions
Even if your method is wrong
Just ask then
But whatever you can't say to your leader, I won't
Problem-solving skills
This is most important ability of employees, none of them
It's okay to face difficulties at work
Currently
There is an obligation to find a solution to problem
nine,
Try not to say "it's not me, I don't know"
Try not to speak
Words like "not me", "without me"
Because these words are useless
Leaders are used to such excuses
It won't touch me
Currently
If you can take initiative to take responsibility
On contrary, it is a kind of responsibility
Even if I've been offended
Acquisition on spot is often not wisest choice
You can remain silent at first
Look for opportunities to talk to leaders in private
Ten,
"Too many words will lead to failure" dies with a bang
At hotel
Don't gossip. Don't talk about right and wrong. Don't be right and wrong.
You just have a little faith
Every word you say your boss will know
Good words are optional
Bad words are inevitable
Let's be honest
This is easiest and most profitable
The Honest Principle: Criticize face-to-face, praise behind-the-scenes
Eleven
Know when to leave
Many colleagues
I talked to my friends about resigning
I advise my friends
If you feel unhappy at work
Then don't quit
Because it doesn't matter where it goes
Everyone is unhappy: bosses don't like it, colleagues are not nice
Too tired to work
Relationships are too complicated...
I vouch for my experience in several large hotels
Almost all hotels I have worked in
Unpleasant things are the same
Then
When are you leaving?
There are two cases
One,
In this hotel
You have no room for improvement
Can't find out more
Two,
In this hotel
You have learned enough
You can show off your skills in a new field or on a new platform
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